Living a Lie

We are happy only to the degree that we are truthful. The truer we are, the happier we become – Femi Adediran.

It is far better to “look bad in your own skin” than to look good in “another man’s raiment” Why? Because it is less expensive! – Femi Adediran.

Nothing can be as stressful as having to pretend to be who you are not because you must have to work harder to maintain a life that you do not own and to cover a track that you know nothing about. When you have to deceive others to “look good”, you have only succeeded in locking up yourself in the shadow of ugliness that deception casts upon the soul of every man who thinks he is smart enough to deceive others. – Femi Adediran.

Nothing is as cheap as being you, and it comes with profit unimaginable! The most expensive thing in the world is trying to be who you are not, trying to be like other people – Femi Adediran.

Living a lie disqualifies you for help because you have erroneously occupied a “do not help me” position. Even God would not be able to help you because you have “helped yourself”. Do not be deceived, “Heaven cannot help those who have helped themselves” – Femi Adediran.

Living a lie make u create an impression that will eventually destroy you – Femi Adediran.

One sickening thing about living a lie is this – Your conscience will haunt you daily and “the evil that you do will continually stare you alone in the face” most especially in your private moments. Your confidence is shattered and you are afraid for no reason – Femi Adediran.

Nothing can be as stressful as having to pretend to be who you are not because you must have to work harder to maintain a life that you do not own and to cover a track that you know nothing about. When you have to deceive others to “look good”, you have only succeeded in locking up yourself in the shadow of ugliness that deception casts upon the soul of every man who thinks he is smart enough to deceive others.

When you live a lie, it is like a poor man acting the role of a rich man in a movie, the “Make believe syndrome.” When the movie is over, the poverty of the “make believe rich man” remains with him except he wakes up to reality.

Living a lie disqualifies you for help because you have erroneously occupied a “do not help me” position. Even God would not be able to help you because you have “helped yourself”. Do not be deceived, “Heaven cannot help those who have helped themselves.

When you live a lie, you will perpetually live in chain of lies, having to lie more to cover your previous lies. It is the most stressful thing ever!

The man living a lie cannot lie down in “Green Pastures” because it does not look like his golden bed and it becomes difficult for God to “restore his soul.

Whem you are living a lie, You will always have to look over your shoulder even when no one is coming behind you. You will need to remember your past often else you will miss your “lie lines”.

One sickening thing about living a lie is that, your conscience will haunt you daily and “the evil that you do will continually stare you alone in the face”, most especially in your private moment; Your confidence is shattered and you are afraid for no reason.

Living a lie will create a hole in your soul and empty your heart of grace leading to secret shame and anguish.You get angry with yourself for reasons you can’t even explain.

When you live a lie, you automatically make yourself a slave of other peoples expectation working so hard to be who you made them believe you are.

Nothing is as cheap as being you, and it comes with profit unimaginable! The most expensive thing in the world is trying to be who you are not, trying to be like other

Why Do We Live a lie?

• We live a lie because we fear of rejection
• We live a lie for the love of acceptance
• We live a lie because we want to make an impression
• We live a lie because of our insatiable desire to look like “the Jones and the Jonessess”

It is far Better to “look bad in your own skin” than to look good in “another man’s raiment” Why? Because it is less expensive!

We are happy only to the degree that we are truthful. The truer we are, the happier we become.No man lives a lie and live a happy life because nothing is as burdensome as having to live up to expectations of other people.

Ask any man who is living a lie…sadness and sorrow lurks at the depth of their soul.

Live so simple that you become unpredictable

You cannot give what You do not have. You cannot become who you are not. A goat cannot become an Elephant. The deception can only be for so long.

Living a lie make u create an impression that will eventually destroy you

And so:

• Be true to yourself
• Be true to your conscience
• Be true to your calling
• Be true even when no one encourages you
• Be true in the dark
• Be true in the light

It might take a while but you will soon become that man you have always dreamt of someday, if you will be true to God and to yourself.

The truth is that we will all eventually get and become that which we truly desire and long for if we we will remain persevering.

No matter how beautiful your lies makes you look at the moment, It will eventually destroy the beauty in your soul.

• Why buy a car you can’t maintain?
• Why live a lifestyle you can’t sustain?
• Why pretend to be a saint when you are a chronic sinner?
• Why get into debt because you want to impress others?
• Why force yourself to give what you do not have?
• Why make a promise you cannot keep?

You may be able to deceive everybody but not your own conscience.

If and when you have succeeded in “deceiving everybody”, be sure to tell yourself the truth so you can be saved!

And when all is said and done. A life lived on lies becomes broken, shattered in pieces, and languish in shame.

DO NOT LIVE A LIE….LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE!

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