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nother definition of marriage is: “I choose to be your life partner in spite of your ineligibility status”. None of us is eligible to marry. We are too bad to live with a good person. So, be happy someone (a good person) marries you. Work hard at making whoever marries you not regret the decision to do so! – Femi Adediran, February 2022.
Respect is critical to making any relationship work. It is easy to abandon what and who you do not Respect. Respect your spouse regardless of what you know about each other – Femi Adediran, February 2022.
Truth be told, it’s not easy for two people to be sandwiched together for the rest of their life. That is why couples must become everything to each other, friends, first and foremost, then lovers, father, mother and every other thing possible. Being husband and wife should be the last thing because every other thing we had been will eventually make us who we are supposed to be – A husband and a wife – Femi Adediran, February 2022.
While it is gravely criminal to beat your wife. It is also grossly childish and deeply hurtful to be an abusive wife in every sense of the word, being verbally abusive inclusive – Femi Adediran, February 2022.
Let every husband strive as much as they can to make their wife happy. It is “extremely dangerous” to let another man make your wife happy. If you make your wife happy, your own happiness is non-negotiable. A happy wife naturally multiplies happiness – Femi Adediran, February 2022.
Even if you just walk out of a marriage, DO NOT bang the door. You may have to walk through the door again
Respect is critical to making any relationship work. It is easy to abandon what and who you do not Respect. Respect your spouse regardless
of what you know about each other.
While it is gravely criminal to beat your wife. It is also grossly childish and deeply hurtful to be an abusive wife in every sense of the word, being verbally abusive inclusive.
Marriage doesn’t work until we make them one. And this MUST BE INTENTIONAL!
Another definition of marriage is: “I choose to be your life partner in spite of your ineligibility status”. None of us is eligible to marry. We are too bad to live with a good person. So, be happy someone (a good person) marries you and work hard at making whoever marries you not regret the decision to do so!
Truth be told, it’s not easy for two people to be sandwiched together for the rest of their life. That is why couples must become everything to each other, friends, first and foremost, then lovers, father, mother and every other thing possible. Being husband and wife should be the last thing because every other thing we had been will eventually make us who we are supposed to be – A husband and a wife.
None of us is fully prepared for marriage, as a matter of fact, we got the certificate before the class commences. Interestingly, we are expected to be in class all lifelong, learning the ropes!
Don’t Break Up from your marriage so soon except it is “life-threatening”. The Grass you see across the fence is not so green.
Let every husband strive as much as they can to make their wife happy. It is “extremely dangerous” to let another man make your wife happy. If you make your wife happy, your own happiness is non-negotiable. A happy wife naturally multiplies happiness.
In Marriage, always have a rethink before you make a decision, it will shock you to know that there is always a better option
Until we stop seeing our spouse as the problem in our marriage, our marital problems will persist. Let us be more focused on being a better partner rather than getting bitter with our other partner.
The more we accept each other for who we are, the easier it is to relate with one another. We may encourage the other person to get better but DO NOT force change on anybody, it backfires eventually.
Marriage is a PLATFORM to become anything and everything. Marriage is also a platform to become nothing! Whatever we eventually become is 100% our choice!
Each time you are tempted to Break Up your marriage. Look for one thousand and one reasons to Make Up.
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