Failed Parenthood

Parenthood is not just a duty but a life assignment. We remain parent from “their birth” till “our death” – Femi Adediran, 2020

Effective “policing of our community” can only be by the parents and not by the “man in police uniform” who also needs “parent policing” – Femi Adediran, 2020

We fail because we fail to pray…We fail to pray for our children. Prayer is not the last resort, it is our first assignment – Femi Adediran, 2020

There are too many babies who had become parents and have no clue as to what parenting is all about. If you happen to be a parent, for the sake of your children, Grow up. Do your own growing. Babies don’t babysit fellow babies – Femi Adediran,  2020

Parenting is not just about disciplining the children, it’s about handing down legacy they can make reference to – Femi Adediran, 2020

There is no halfway to it, it’s either we fail or we are successful as parents. Our generation stinks not because of the so many “garbage’s around” but because most parents failed in their “God assigned” responsibilities. Parenthood is not just a duty but a life assignment. We remain parent from “their birth” till “our death”. Every child is an angel until parents make a demon of them. Effective “policing of our community” can only be by the parents and not by the “man in police uniform” who also needs “parent policing”.

Parenting is not just about disciplining the children, it’s about handing down legacy they can make reference to. Why do we have so many failed parents today?

  1. There are too many babies who had become parents and have no clue as to what parenting is all about. If you happen to be a parent, for the sake of your children, Grow up. Do your own growing. Babies don’t babysit fellow babies
    1. Most parents don’t take responsibility for their children, therefore both parent and child becomes irresponsible. More often than not we substitute school training for home training. These are two different things
    1. Most parents are bad influence, bad example for their children
    1. We spare the rod too many times
    1. We don’t pay attention to our children because we are too busy to make “ends meet”
    1. We Misplaced our Priorities too often
    1. We fail because we fail to pray…We fail to pray for our children. Prayer is not the last resort, it is our first assignment

 When parents are no longer failures…The world would be better for it.

 Femi Adediran…olufire Nooni

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Dr. Femi Adediran is a multidisciplinary professional whose work sits at the intersection of business strategy, cybersecurity governance, clean energy innovation, and faith-driven leadership. With a strong reputation for integrity and strategic insight, he supports entrepreneurs, organizations, and institutions in building resilient systems, managing risk, and achieving sustainable growth. His approach blends technical expertise with practical wisdom, enabling clients to navigate complex challenges while remaining purpose-focused and future-ready.

Beyond consulting, Femi Adediran is an author, mentor, and inspirational voice committed to legacy-building through knowledge, empowerment, and service. Through leadership development, mentorship initiatives, and transformational writing, he equips individuals and communities to lead with excellence, clarity, and conviction. His work is guided by a deep commitment to truth, innovation, and impact—helping people not only succeed, but thrive in alignment with their values.

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