When You Are Offended, How Do You Manage It?

*There is no one who is ever offended who lives happily. Nothing is worth your happiness. Think about it* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Some people take offense as if it is their life business. Offense will truly keep you busy but busy with what will eventually destroy you* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *If your prayers must be answered, you must keep your heart out of offense. Even demons trembles at hearts void of offense.* 

 _*”Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; leave there thy gift before the altar and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.”*_ Matthew 5 : 23 -24

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Be intentional, Be deliberate. Take no offense. Forgive in advance and forgive all the way. There is no better description for better living* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Nobody owes you anything, not even your parent nor your spouse nor your children nor your friends; you owe yourself everything. The earlier you realize this, the less offended you will be.*

 -Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Love yourself enough not to be offended* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *The less your expectation from people, the less offended you will be* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Offense may be a hold on the other person, its a stronger hold on the offended* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Offense is no longer a form of defense, its a full form of attack at your heart!* 

-Femi Adediran, June 2022

 *Do yourself a favour* , keep your heart out of offence. A heart void of offence is a life full of Defense.

 *The less offended you are, the better defended you become* 

There is no one who is ever offended who lives happily. Nothing is worth your happiness. Think about it

If your prayers must be answered, you must keep your heart out of offense. Even demons trembles at hearts void of offense. “Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; leave there thy gift before the altar and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.” Matthew 5 : 23 -24

Some people take offense as if it is their life business. Offense will truly keep you busy but busy with what will eventually destroy you

 *Those who let go of offense easily enjoy better health. Check the statistics* 

Offense is self indulgence afterall everything is a choice even offense!

 *A sure sign of defeat is to take offense* 

The more egoistic we are, the more offended we become. 

 *Do you want to experience daily miracle? Keep your heart out of offence* 

Offense is no longer a form of defense, its a full form of attack at your heart!

Offense may be a hold on the other person, its a stronger hold on offended

 *Offense has never made anyone stronger. Rather we become weaker with every newly added offense* 

Love yourself enough not to be offended

 *As long as you remain offended, you ll always be defenseless. Offense strips you of life defense making you vulnerable to all forms of life attack* 

Nobody owes you anything, not even your parent nor your spouse nor your children nor your friends; you owe yourself everything. The earlier you realize this, the less offended you will be.

 *Offense is more poisonous than the venom of a snake!* 

The less your expectation from people, the less offended you will be

If you want to be truly happy, stay away from offense. Offense is a killer of joy

 *Offense will stop your heart from “breathing”; From breathing the fresh air of life* 

We become easily caked when we are easily offended

 *We are Offended by our spouse* 

 *We are offended by our friends* 

 *We are offended by our children* 

 *We are offended by our Government* 

 *We are offended by our Religious leaders* 

 *We are offended by our parents* 

 *We are offended at work* 

 *We are offended at home* 

 *Offense offense offense everywhere!* 

 *The world is truly submerged in offense and is designed to drown us in her offense, do not fall for the temptation. He who is not offended will live above the world* 

 

Be intentional, Be deliberate. Take no offense. Forgive in advance and forgive all the way. There is no better description for better living.

 

 *Dont be self centered. Be humble, be empathetic, be more concerned about your character than your right and more importantly, love truly and love genuinely, this is how to live above offense* 

 

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