The Problem Child

The grass is not greener anywhere, we all must learn to cultivate our own garden and dress our own field – Femi Adediran, 2020

Prayer is good, but when your heart and act is in variance with your prayer points, you have only been engaged in lips excercise . Prayers only works when your HEART is “ACCORDING TO” and you “ACT ACCORDINGLY” – Femi Adediran, 2020

Be courageous enough to smile in all situations…It is the coolest way to declare your victory even before you are through with your battles. Each time you smile, you just won a victory! – Femi Adediran, 2020

A liability well managed can turn to an asset and an asset badly managed can become a liability. Every situation on your hand is a raw material to make you a fortune or land you in misfortune – Femi Adediran, 2020

No challenge is strong enough to overcome any man, the power to overcome YOU is with YOU and until YOU give it out, your victory is sure – Femi Adediran, 2020

What kills YOU is what YOU have refused to kill! – Femi Adediran, 2020

Don’t become “Unreliable” because you have liabilities, we all do – Femi Adediran, 2020

As much as i wont encourage you to keep your challenges to yourself, do not make your challenges your song. When a man’s challenge becomes his song, he would eventually become an unsung hero. It is natural to always want to talk about your going through but you must make conscious effort not to make an habit of it because people mostly will remember you for things you talk about the most. Do not make your challenges your identity

When you are preoccupied with your challenges, it becomes difficult to be of relevance in life matters and opportunities will continue to elude you. The grass is not greener anywhere, we all must learn to cultivate our own garden and dress our own field. More often than not we think, others will help us solve our problems, perhaps they do sometimes, but in the real and final analysis, you are the one that will provide the solution that you need. Take it or leave it, no one is caring enough to give your problem their 100% attention, not even your parent or Pastor. They have their own lives to live and their own issues to iron out too

We all are not as “good looking” as we appear, we have only summoned courage to stand up and show up. Be courageous enough to smile in all situations…It is the coolest way to declare your victory even before you are through with your battles. Each time you smile, you just won a victory! The one reason why people would avoid your calls or not visit with you or let you visit with them is probably because you always have one thing or the other to “whine” about. Look, even people with “a world of problems” does not like “problematic people” as them. Nobody wants a resemblance with loathsomeness

For once, in a long time, never mention anything about your challenges for a 7days week. Be deliberate not to complain about nothing. “Pretend” and speak like you got it all together. Practice a “challenge free life” and it will soon become your lifestyle. Because you are becoming what you are acting. Practice, they say, makes perfect. Ask after people’s welfare out of genuine concern. The result will be amazing in your life. You will find solutions to your problems and be happier.

The less we “whine” the more we “dine”. The easiest way to get help is to be of help as much as you can in your own “little” or “big” way. The little offer of help from you could be a world of breakthrough to the receiver so don’t think you got nothing to offer. Be an asset not a liability!

Don’t become “Unreliable” because you have liabilities, we all do. A liability well managed can turn to an asset and an asset badly managed can become a liability. Every situation on your hand is a raw material to make you a fortune or land you in misfortune. Nobody is unfortunate until we begin to think that only the luckiest are fortunate. You are not fortunate because you are lucky, you are lucky because you are fortunate. Fortune can only attract luck!

No challenge is strong enough to overcome any man, the power to overcome YOU is with YOU and until YOU give it out, your victory is sure What kills YOU is what YOU have refused to kill! Rather than empowering your challenges, empower your mind. Life breakthrough is mind Breakthrough. Whatever battle is not won in your mind cannot be won in your life. Prayer is good, but when your heart and act is in variance with your prayer points, you have only been engaged in lips exercise . Prayers only works when your HEART is “ACCORDING TO” and YOU “ACT ACCORDINGLY”

Rather than being “The Problem child” with “Problems Identity”  and “Identity Problem” . Be the solutions that the world seek. Learn to lose without crying and to win with a world of smile.

 Femi Adediran…Olufire nooni

 Olufire@gmail.com

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