Relationship Management (6) –  Relating With Family Members (Extended)

The Grass is not “greener” anywhere. Everyone is grappling with something. We all are “broke” one way or the other. Respect the decision of family members who said NO to you rather than hold grudges – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

Be proud of your family no matter what, every family has its own “black sheep” – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

Every family is capable of Greatness if each member will individually accept responsibility to become great. The realization that we are personally responsible for our own greatness will set us free from being a liability but an asset in the family – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

As much as you can, be there for your family members but don’t break your bones because with or without you, members of your family will survive – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

It is good to help family members but not at the detriment of your own life. You don’t have to die to be a hero – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

Celebrate members of your family,  victory for one is a victory for all. The victory you do not celebrate, you do not attract – Femi Adediran, October 2021.

When you are in bondage, and you are trying to deliver another person in bondage, it is advanced foolishness. What you have not overcome, you cannot help others with. Until you have been helped, do not attempt to help others, you may be digging your own grave -Femi Adediran, October 2021.


Relationship ManagementEvery family is capable of Greatness if each member will individually accept responsibility to become great. The realization that we are personally responsible for our own greatness will set us free from being a liability but an asset in the family.

There is nothing more honorable than to accept responsibility for the Greatness of your family. It does not matter if you are the lastborn, “the head” is where the illumination is.

We all are representative of our family whether we recognize it or not. When the chips are down (and even when they are up), our family name becomes the focal point.

As much as you can, be there for your family members but don’t break your bones because with or without you, members of your family will survive.

A family that fights together, wins together.

Everything that must stand out must be built, even our family. Our families can stand out by the deliberate collective effort to build.

When you are in bondage, and you are trying to deliver another person in bondage, it is advanced foolishness. What you have not overcome, you cannot help others with. Until you have been helped, do not attempt to help others, you may be digging your own grave.

It is good to help family members but not to the detriment of your own life. You don’t have to die to be a hero.

Family members will have reasons to disagree and even fight but we must be careful not to draw our own blood because water cannot replace blood no matter what.

Your family is your background, be careful not to become relegated to the background because of your background.Relationship Management

Be proud of your family no matter what, every family has its own black sheep.

The Grass is not “greener” anywhere. Everyone is grappling with something. We all are “broke” one way or the other. Respect the decision of family members who said NO to you rather than hold grudges.

The earlier you accept responsibility for your own life, the quicker you will break free from the hold of your family background.

Your family members owe you nothing, rather you owe them everything. The earlier you realize this, the quicker you will find your way.

It is easier to break free from the “Root curse” when a family is united. We are stronger when we are together.

Make it a habit to check on family members once in a while, it brings wellness to your soul.

Celebrate members of your family,  victory for one is a victory for all. The victory you do not celebrate, you do not attract.

The family thrives on two virtues; Love and Forgiveness.

No two family is exactly the same, every family is unique in its own way. You belong to the best family ever! We only have to explore the potentials of our own family.

Nothing works until we work. Family building is real work. Our family can only work if we work at it.

It is good to have “healthy family traditions”. It’s a bond that leaves us with sweet memories.

Femi Adediran…olufire Naani
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